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Your effort and energy should go to her first, always. I was splitting my efforts 60/40 percent between Audrey and my friend. Although I was not married to Audrey yet, when you are dating intentionally, the principle remains the same. If my relationship with my friend in Santa Barbara had progressed any further, I would have been choosing my friend, over Audrey.My time and effort would have swung more in her favor, instead of Audrey’s.
You made a promise, and now you must make decisions that honor your promise.The more you give to someone else, the less you have for your wife or potential spouse.And once you are married, your wife is the most important relationship you have besides your relationship with the Lord.The good person in you won’t want to hurt them (your opposite-sex friend) or your spouse because neither one deserves to be hurt. These situations can seem complicated, but they are actually quite simple to understand.*Disclaimers* Yes, you can have friends of the opposite sex.No, I am not saying this is the say all end all on the debate.
This article is about why and how they CAN ruin your marriage.
But what I am saying is, the unavoidable progression of relationships is something that is far to easily ignored, for how dangerous they can be.
If ignored and dismissed for too long, you’ll be in a relationship too deep to stop.
Don’t keep going to lunch alone with that co-worker.
Don’t let that friend in on what you’ve been thinking and wrestling with lately, especially if you haven’t let your wife in! Hanging out with the opposite sex alone is not just asking, it’s begging for problems.
There was nothing wrong with her, she didn’t do anything wrong, in fact, she helped me a ton and had a huge impact on my life in college…. Think about it this way, say you have a scale of 0 – 100 percent. You cannot give more than 100 percent effort, it’s not possible!