My boyfriend dating another girl
The person who did the dumping is the one who thought long and hard about whether it was a wise decision to end a 2 ½ year relationship.If your boyfriend concluded that, all things considered, his ex was not a good fit for him in the longterm, whether its due to different views on sex, money, religion, or personality conflicts, then that’s all you need to know. And the real truth is that I wouldn’t take back anyone who dumped me either.
I have a number of girlfriends that I’m appalled that I ever dated, a handful of girlfriends who were wonderful whom I didn’t appreciate, and a few girlfriends that really, would have been better off as friends. If you’re a recent couple, you don’t really have a right to say anything about how he lives his life.He refuses to distance himself from her and thinks I’m being unreasonable by asking him to do so. She was extremely nice to me, so much so it felt unnatural since she doesn’t know me at all.So, my question is what kind of friendship with the ex is too much? Am I being a jealous girlfriend to feel the way I feel?It seems pretty clear from the outside that the ex-boyfriend is her best friend and “soulmate”, while the husband is merely the father to her children.The husband provides money and stability, but they don’t truly connect the way she does with her ex.See where love takes you in this super fun game called Elsa And Barbie Blind Date!
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Two to three times a week does seem excessive, I’ll admit.
What I would probably suggest is that if you’re “the one” for your boyfriend, he’ll start to show it in his actions and won’t want to spend as much time and energy on his ex. Because nothing makes a man want to cheat (or leave) more than a girlfriend who doesn’t trust him.
The ex-girlfriend also will not stop posting on his Facebook wall almost daily, with intimate posts (“awww…
your stress won’t last much longer”), pictures of their families having thanksgiving dinner last year before we started dating, pictures of them dancing together back in graduate school, etc. I trust my boyfriend 100% and I really don’t think he’ll cheat on me with her.
And if anyone wants to get on my case about telling her to accept her boyfriend’s behavior, please go back to that paragraph where I said that if she’s not getting her relationship needs met, she should leave.