Is dating your second cousin wrong
I learned a ton about my four paternal great-grandparents—again, I had known the basic info about them, but it was the details that for the first time made them real people.
So for example, if two cousins had a child, that child would only have six great-grandparents, not eight.Alright, I’m nervous about this, but I’m gonna take a crack at going back even further— Okay that got completely out of hand. Most of them were your age in the second half of the 1600s, just as the Enlightenment was getting going in Europe.You can see why it’s not really that impressive when someone tells you they are descended from famous royalty who lived a few hundred years ago. Fw-300 #ya-qn-sort h2 /* Breadcrumb */ #ya-question-breadcrumb #ya-question-breadcrumb i #ya-question-breadcrumb a #bc .ya-q-full-text, .ya-q-text #ya-question-detail h1 html[lang="zh-Hant-TW"] .ya-q-full-text, html[lang="zh-Hant-TW"] .ya-q-text, html[lang="zh-Hant-HK"] .ya-q-full-text, html[lang="zh-Hant-HK"] .ya-q-text html[lang="zh-Hant-TW"] #ya-question-detail h1, html[lang="zh-Hant-HK"] #ya-question-detail h1 #Stencil . Bdend-1g /* Trending Now */ /* Center Rail */ #ya-center-rail .profile-banner-default .ya-ba-title #Stencil . Bgc-lgr #ya-best-answer, #ya-qpage-msg, #ya-question-detail, li.ya-other-answer .tupwrap .comment-text /* Right Rail */ #Stencil . Bxsh-003-prpl #yai-q-answer, #ya-trending, #ya-related-questions h2. Fw-300 .qstn-title #ya-trending-questions-show-more, #ya-related-questions-show-more #ya-trending-questions-more, #ya-related-questions-more /* DMROS */ .The top row is the 128-person group of your great grandparents, or your grandparents’ grandparents’ great-grandparents.
The thing that I find surprising is how recently in time you had such a large number of ancestors. What tragedies did they endure and what were their greatest triumphs?
Estimating an average generation at 25-30 years, most of those people were your current age around 1800-1825. What were the 254 parent-child relationships in this diagram like?
So the early 19th-century world contained 128 random strangers going about their lives, each of whose genes makes up 1/128th of who you are today. Which of the 252 in-law relationships above were close and loving and which were angry and contentious?
Especially since it’s their particular orphanage/sweatshop/Great Depression struggle that has led to my ridiculously pleasant life.
And as happy as I am that I at least scratched the surface of learning who these people were, I’m now sad about all of these other gray people: All of this has gotten me thinking about genealogy and how fascinating it is as a concept.
Look how many people you’re descended from only about 300 years back!