Husband on dating websites
I woke up this morning and found him on three site, all with posts last night says, looking for some fun.So My advice, tell him to get out of your life and start again with someone that will respect you.
There is marriage counselling and therapy, both which could save your marriage.Me at 25 weeks pregnant he has a new computer and starts shutting the screen when I get close.I snuck up on him one day and saw a girl on the screen so I went and set up fake users on each dating site I knew he used and baited him. It was a Friday night, date night and we were scheduled to do a tour of the birthing center where are baby is to be worn really really soon.I gave him the benefit of the doubt and we argued, fought, I almost broke his new computer I was so pissed.I left, came back and he assured me that he deleted all of his online dating accounts.Itâs now been a week and we have talked and cried so much but I feel so sick inside that I canât eat, sleep or work and am having suicidal thoughts. He says he will do anything to show me that Iâm everything to him. And he was so sick, throwing up, not eating, not sleeping.
He is extremely sorry and I know he loves me but I feel like although he has not physically cheated on me he has mentally. He says he hasnât been on since I nearly caught him (when he crashed the computer)and that he was never going to again but all I think is what about if I hadnât caught him, in 10 years time he could still be doing it. There was a patch in the beginning of my relationship with my husband where his mother forced him (we were 16 and 17, so yes she could force him) to break up with me. At the time I was pregnant and it was an additional blow I did not need. I could tell he was sorry and did not want to break up with me.
We had our 1st proper massive fight in the whole 5 years we have been together and he promised he would never hurt me again and that I am his rock, his best friend, his soul mate and the love of his life and he was being inconsiderate of my feelings .
But Something just wasnât feeling right in my mind and I knew he was lying about what he had been doing.
i believe that he is sorry and deserve another chance.
my ex of five years did silly things like that and i ignored the red flags.
Since we got pregnant in July i have found him with a new dating site on three separate occasions, each time he's remorseful, feels sorry and says he never wants to loose me, I am all he has and he needs me.