Good welcome letter to a new member on dating site
What kind of things stand out to you and makes you want to reply?I know a lot of girls have the "don't just say what's up or how are you" in their profile, but what sort of things do you ladies want to see?
A good introduction message is one that shows that you have taken the time to read their profile.Oh and you might want to be online at core busy times. This loser couldn't even TRY to write a few sentences so I never even LOOKED at his profile.Many first contacts happen because someone got a message whilst they were online and they could see the sender was online at that time too. remember that consumer behaviour, the 4 p's etc ... I have a 200 charactor minimum for the first message. The message does matter..nice smile your very you like white guys hope you do cas your sexy so hot me back bye 1111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111.ghuiwequiuiqhduiohuioqhddiohqiohdiohqwilhdhdjklhqwjklh Oh god.I want to see that you can read with comprehension and respond in a mature and reasonable fashion. I enjoy reading his profile and find things in it I can relate to.Tossing in your last year's financial portfolio wouldn't hurt either... He's actually dateable to me (right age, location, height, etc).Other than that, I don't have much to add as it's been pretty well answered. Make a comment off of something you see on her profile. Also make sure your message includes something that she can comment back on. That's what has to pass- the initial message isn't going to get a woman to message you back if your profile doesn't pass the test.
So let me summarize: If you're really interested, talk to her like you're really interested and want her to be, too. The idea here is to get a conversation going and get off the online format and meet in real life as soon as possible. That's why you should save a detailed message for your second exchange.
If you mention even one thing they listed in their profile, that should help.
I consider all vague messages to be spam and are completely ignored.
This may be a bit off topic, but this my friend is the truth, whether a woman wants to admit it or not.
If a woman doesn't find you attractive (by your photos in the least) than chances are no matter what you write, it still will not get you a response.
Providing of course, that your pics and profile are satisfactory to her.