Dating websites gone wrong
I consider myself to be an intelligent woman but loneliness can cloud your judgement. Accent I couldn't quite identify, inconsistent with someone claiming to have lived all his life in Florida and Denver. Messaging all times of day and night, spent most of yesterday on hangouts. I know they won’t be able to get friends from my friends list because it’s private. First clue -2 first names being used, Second- he only has a few posts and is following many women. Don't fall for these schemes and do Not give any money for any reason. Try meeting at church or a local dance in your area. If it looks like a duck, sounds and walks like a duck, It Is A Duck!!! If you need Someone to tell you you are beautiful, just come to the Facebook site and we will tell you those things and you still have your money and your heart.I also consider myself very lucky that I was spared the heartache that other women have gone through with him and others like him. The less we interact with them the less hold they have on us. No online presence in the name he gave, no verifiable info forthcoming. Supposedly now on drilling platform in Poland, having a bad day, and machinery order held up with final payment needed, bank account frozen because he didn't notify them he's abroad. I have received so many friend requests through a friend. I just wanted to add that my guy used the name Micheal (NOT MICHAEL) John.
That didn't work so then when he told me after Christmas he would come and visit me but he wasn't in the state and that was the bye bye. We all make mistakes, thats why we are on this site to begin with. Good looking guy but his profile was devoid of anyone else besides him. I blocked him and he emailed me ( stupidly I gave him my email) and replied in broken English "he was hurt and very interested in me. " I sent him the link to this site so hopefully he is reading our comments. A scoundrel in the truest sense -dishonest; manipulative and who knows how dangerous. I could not believe that many could find me randomly. It said He could not accept anymore games as this player was at his limit. Words With Friends is the only game Engineers in the oil industry know how to play. However they want you to go to Hangouts through gmail. He had a 12 year old "daughter" writing to me calling me mom.I am just hoping this is not s "scammer" who got through the cracks. Since we are all anonymous, I would be very careful posting any email addresses. If there was a way to reach every woman out there I would. The scammers too give out the info to others that is how mine found out about it who I had not talked to in a long time, then sent me that message Laughing. The most common post is a scammer posing as a victim saying they found someone who is in Nigeria who wants to stop scammers and works to get victims their money back. Please send me his pic before I get anymore involved. It is sad when I have been here for over a good year and now the scammers are coming on here by other's telling them to come here. No he laughed, thought we were all dumb and idiots for being scammed. Different name, but widowed with an 11 year old boy, no other family and is an independent civil engineer working on an oil platform. My heart aches, and I am normally not taken easily. I will never forget the experience I had with him as he was so sweet, fun and kind until I asked him to never ask me for money and then he became furious and talked very hateful. with a 16 yo daughter presently living with an Aunt in Michigan.I have been very cautious as to not give my email out to any strangers, but I let my guard down on this site thinking it was safe. We must let all our Facebook friends know what to watch out for. I was hurt and felt betrayed by her giving out this site for I Swear I think the Ed Steve has done a great job here to keep us protected and I praise them for it. Hope ones reading this understand "Do Not Give This Site To Your Scammers" They all work together. They then provide a email address that victims can contact to get their money back. He even said I was his soul mate, that he was in love with me. Live and learn, but he had a wonderful beauty about him. My guy had the same backstory: owned his own offshore drilling company and currently working on a project for Exxon Mobil which ends in February. Widower looking for a wife & good mother for daughter. I found him interesting at first – he was a friend of a friend on FB.That led me to a Youtube post about Oil Rigger dating scammers and there was his face amongst all the others who are doing this. He has no love in his heart for you or any of us that he tried to scam. Messaging via WWF for a couple of weeks, exchanged gmail, then on Hangouts for a month. Collinsclark friend requested me on Instagram a few days ago and he is following over 6,000/people, women of course.I'm very thankful that I caught on quickly to this jerk, otherwise I might have been totally sucked in. If you think you want to play with him, just keep in mind that he is NOT the person in the photo. Spoke a few times on phone but his always with VOIP connection. I messaged my friend and told her she needs to stop Accepting requests from people she doesn’t know. I had seen his picture flooding around on Twitter and I believe that he has been listed on this site as well. I wish I had read all these sites before I got involved in this scam.
The only problem was this guy wanted £6000 which once again I paid and after a few days the diplomat contacted me again and Said the tracker was something he hadn't come across before and he would have to get his boss over from Russia with a special chemical which would definitely break the tracker but it would cost another £4000 by which time my bank account was empty because the diplomat had to have his hotel bill paid £2000.
This has been going on for almost 2 months, and I am just having fun, but I am sure he gets mad at my responses and acts like he is ok. This criminal is exceptionally stupid because if a woman tells him, I don't trust people easily I am guarded and he keeps pursuing me, then hes wasting his time, he is not of an exceptional intelligence.
We have got to be smarter than they are, and I am not desperate for attention, lol but his messages are nice.. In the end ie at the end of his two weeks job on the oil rig while we chatted, he said that he got a cheque for 30,000 USD for a two weeks job and hes on his way to London, but said he was upset as he could not cash it as his license expired and he could cash it only for 2000 USD but he had on him only 300USD.
He is all lovey dovey lol, so he was in Florida on Vacations, traveled to dubai, once he got there his debit card was blocked and he wanted me to send him money. Sweet whispery heavily accented voice and also turned controlling and angry. He posts photos of him dark haired, white shirt, dark jacket/trousers, smiling and this is also his facebook profile which is empty BTW.
We argued about that, he wanted me to send him a walmart debit card, but finally I told him I was not doing it, and I was done with that theme, now he said there was an accident on the oil rig, and one person is dead. He has not responded to my email yet, he has sent me pictures of a very handsome guy who I am sure is not him. He also uses photos of an older woman with dark hair and supposed sister wearing glasses, claiming his mother just had heart attack but does not reveal what hospital the mother is in. He is unusually very sweet, speaks in a silent voice, whispers and sometimes you can hear children in the background that are probably his :-)) hardly him being on an oil rig.
He wanted me to participate on a fund raiser for the family of the deceased, so I told him I will not do it and asked him whats next? I have sent him pictures but nothing that cannot be seen in public so am ok. If he says widower, oil rig, son or daughter living with Nanny or in boarding school, and any variation, and has an accent, broken English. There is a sudden personality switch when he gets confronted, he switches from an incredibly sweet man to a controlling psychopath who wants to rule the world and women.