Dating guys who have children
These choices mainly apply to two sets of people: You’re in a minority in your preferences if you were into BDSM, or were an animal activist, or gave half your earnings to the Pentecostal Church.There’s no judgment against minorities, but we must acknowledge that if you insist that your partner also have your non-mainstream preference, there are going to be far fewer singles from which to choose.
The shorter man could be open to heavier women, the older woman to older men.The problem is when we refuse to budge and then complain how hard it is to find anyone.It would be like me saying that I want to drive a car, but I’ll only drive a hot pink Lamborghini that I see being driven down my street. I don’t blame you, Steve, for not wanting to have kids.It’s a huge decision, a life-altering decision, and you shouldn’t do it if it makes you feel profoundly uncomfortable.Just know that the only options you have are to date women in their 30’s who state that they don’t want kids, to date women who are in their 40’s who may be cool with the idea of not having kids, or wait for women in their 50’s whose kids are already grown.I know you don’t have a magic wand, so I just have to play the hand I’ve been dealt.
I’m willing to take a risk by contacting women who list that they are “not sure” about wanting children.
I’m wondering if there are other types of women worth taking a risk on.
Maybe women who may have listed a less than accurate preference about having children to not scare people away?
I had never really considered NOT having kids before.
At first I was dismayed, but after some reflection told him we didn’t need to worry about that just yet and let’s just see how everything else goes.
Not all women are looking for the One (or believe in the One for that matter), and not all women have considered the possibilities.