Dating childish men
The other day, one of my female friends came to me seeking advice.
Being beautiful is different from being sexy or cute, but a beautiful woman will probably have some of everything. That's the type of sh*t I think of when I think of truly beautiful women.Actually, I got more instant attention in Southern California; the “Latino effect.” The only thing that makes me stand out to women here is my height, thank God for that one tall great uncle! Regarldess, I look on the bright side and see this as an advantage.I speak Spanish fluently; therefore, I can’t play the “…no jaaabl0 Españoler mucho bueno. I’m naturally outgoing and funny, so I can really be myself when speaking Spanish.A sexy woman is sexy because Naturally, when a woman has all of the physical assets that men look for, that's sexy in a more explicit sense. When a man calls a woman beautiful, he's talking about something deeper than lust.But a lot of what defines sexiness is beneath the surface, whether that means having a wild side or a type of mystique that isn't easy to read. Personally, when I hear the word beautiful, I think of the quality that I'd look for in a wife.At first glance, Medellin women do not perceive me as a foreigner due to the way I look.
So I do not have that instant “gringo effect” on them.
Before I go any further, if you're being called any of these terms of endearment, don't think too deeply into them, as usually they're just that -- terms of endearment. While cute women may not ooze sex appeal in a more overtly risqué way, they're alluring (and equally attractive) in their own way.
It may seem a bit to call a woman “cute," since it's a word we also use to describe puppies and children. For the most part, cuteness refers to a woman's reserved temperament.
While I could see where she was coming from, I couldn't help but laugh.
She was thinking far too literally."Cute" has two entirely different definitions, and it's important to distinguish between them. I told my friend that being called cute was a compliment.
Most of my close friends here in Medellin are foreigners and I have seen girls break their neck checking them out as we walk down the street.