Dating a married man for money
Who knew that one day you could turn it around and use those same skills as a part of a way of getting dates?
He was naturally outgoing and positive and instinctively understood how to make people feel good, how to feel guy who liked to tease and play around with everyone – especially the girls he was attracted to – and they would respond with great enthusiasm.And yet there were a few people in my social circle who could – to put it charitably – punch well outside of their apparent weight class.They were not classically handsome – in fact, many of them were fat and balding.The brain increases dopamine and norepinephirine, which regulates the brain’s pleasure and reward centers.We associate the pleasure with the person and thus want to spend more time in their presence.It’s a very simple premise: we instinctively like people who make us feel good.
The better they make us feel, the more we like them.
Take bantering and antagonistic flirting, for example.
I enjoy bantering as a means of flirting because it meshes with my personality and it’s a method of screening for the type of women I am most attracted to.
This is part of why a sense of humor ranks so highly in every poll about what makes men attractive.
Laughter produces endorphins that go straight to the pleasure centers of your brain and relieves physical tension and stress in the muscles making you feel more relaxed.
of time worrying about being more attractive to women.