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Personality, brains and conversational skills count for much more on a date than a slim figure in my experience.
The guys loved her but she wasn't into them in the end. In my group of friends, there is 5 of us trying online dating. I am overweight and I am having more success with meeting men and getting second dates than the slim girls.Surely there is so much more to you than your weight. I would think a truly wonderful partner would be more interested in who you are. He doesn't have a 'fat fetish' he just liked me - individually - as a human. When you've regrouped and got your headspace together again you'll know how to 'get out there'.Even though I often felt overweight when dating, I just tried to forget about it.I feel a lot more confident when I am looking my best and that definitely helps while on a date! It's not the time to be thinking about online dating. This is the last thing you need to be thinking about. Focus on you and building your self esteem up based purely on you.Have you considered speed dating as an alternative to online dating? OG, I'd see a counsellor about your feelings around being fat. I've read three threads now this week, started by you, focussed on 'fat'.Hi, I am looking forward to dating again but wonder how people who ate fat have found it.
Online sites seem harsh but I'm just wondering what tips you all might have for me.
I've not really 'dated' as such (the couple or three formal 'dates' I've been on in my life were pretty tragic! I've been separated for almost 18 months, haven't dated in over 15 years and the thought of putting my 40 something self out there terrifies me. I think confidence counts for more than your age or size. He is smart, funny, 6'4" and looks like a 1940s film star.
) - but I've done lots of activities, joined clubs, been involved in sport and so on. He doesn't have a 'fat fetish' he just liked me - individually - as a human. When you've regrouped and got your headspace together again you'll know how to 'get out there'.
I'm not aware of your relationship history but maybe give yourself some time.
Think about what you're looking for in a partner.
When the time came to remove clothing I knew that as he had already accepted me dressed, then undressed would only be better.