Christian perspective on dating
After watching an episode of Except I didn’t delete it. I felt an overwhelming sense of guilt and shame because I didn’t think that I was trusting God enough.
Online dating may not be God’s will for you—it’s certainly not for everyone.I met a guy online who knew exactly what he wanted.He was ready to find a committed relationship or get married, but I wasn’t ready…yet.Jennifer's, Samantha's and John's concerns are common, because according to the U. Census Bureau, 19.3 million Americans get divorced each year, and many of them date and eventually remarry.Perhaps you share their concerns, as you're also wondering how you can reenter the dating world after divorce — and do so according to God's standards. Divorce is the death of the dreams you had when you committed yourself "for better or for worse." As a Christian, you can't simply separate from your spouse one day and hit the dating field the next.Contrary to what I once personally thought, online dating is not just for hook-ups.
Many users are serious about finding a potential spouse.
This may mean seeking out your pastor for support, joining a Divorce Recovery group or visiting a Christian counselor.
Some divorced church-goers try to convince themselves that God's command to abstain from sex doesn't apply to them — that it's for the never-married crowd.
And as with any loss, big or small, time is needed to grieve and to reassess who you are, where you've been and where God wants you to go.
Healing is also necessary to follow God's command to" do unto others what you would have them do unto you," (Matthew ).
However, Scripture is clear that it doesn't matter if someone has been married or not, sex with someone other than your spouse is still fornication (I Thessalonians 4:3, I Corinthians 6:9).